Reader comments are listed below. Comments are currently closed and new comments are no longer being accepted. Unfortunately what is written here in this article is the pure, honest truth.
I have interviewed many girls who are young according Married white male looking for older white female our western standards, and well educated. They face so much pressure from society and family parentsit is ridiculous from our point of view. They have a backwards mentality, even though they are in 21st century. Even I was once questioned several times why I am still not married at age 27, and get weird looks. It reminds me when I went backpacking with another female friend at age 24 to Paraguay among other SA countrieswhich is the poorest and most underdeveloped country in Married white male looking for older white female America together with Boliviaand looknig men asked us where were our husbands, and why lokoing were still not married It seems to me that this is the mentality of third Lady wants nsa Cedarville countries.
The phenomenon in China is that, although it is developing at an extremely fast pace, actually the fastest in the history of the world, the people's mind cannot keep up with this development.
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Indeed, they don't realize that times have changed. A country with a mentality like this, is highly unlikely to become a super power. Thank goodness though. Thank goodness at least many of these Chinese women I have met have a great spirit of entrepreneurship.
Many of them really are admirable in the sense that they are hardworking and really competitive. At least they can be financially safe and stable on their own.
Also one important thing in chinese marriages is to check their astrological compatibility, typically they would exchange their natal charts and see how compatible the couple will be, like this:. But after reading your article I'm afraid Married white male looking for older white female is being lost in favour of pure numbers and real-estate properties I think China is a perfect example of a society that devalues and mistreats women female infanticide, gov't officials and "mistresses", the gender ratio problem then whines and Banquete TX sex dating when their little emperor sons can't find a nice girl to take home to mom and dad who wants to date your spoiled brat?
Phenomena like "er nai, san nai", marital prejudice against older and well-educated women, female infanticide, and male preference all point to a culture that believes women and girls have little worth or value.
Is it any wonder that Chinese women outside of China eagerly date non-Asian men? In the United States one of the most common complaints heard Married white male looking for older white female Asian men is that Asian women refuse to date Asian men.
But maybe if Chinese culture and other Asian cultures valued women more, Asian women might change their minds. As a Chinese American woman I don't date Chinese men for precisely these reasons.
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I have or, correction, had Chinese male friends who joke that their wives are "punching bags" misogyny anyone? If you marry a Chinese man you have to deal with not only his sexist attitudes about your role as a wife and mother, you also have to deal with his parents, who have year-old attitudes Married white male looking for older white female your job as their daughter-in-law.
In-laws are hard enough to deal with without them thinking your basically chattel that they paid for with a dowry.
The dowry may be gone for most modern Chinese, but the slave labor part isn't! I'll be damned if I'm going to clean house and care for the kids all day and then have to deal with Chinese in-laws criticizing me about my mothering and home management skills and whatnot.
I'm not alone in saying "I don't need this! And they don't need to be treated like second class citizens in their own country! To the smart, attractive, highly-educated Chinese woman over I wihte because I'm dating one.
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Why do so many Asian females exhibit such hatred towards their own race and men, I will never know I suspect you have never been to Asia. I have interviewed Chinese women here in China for my thesis and it is true that they are second class citizens. Even those women who make it to the top and are filthy rich, if they haven't married yet they will constantly be reminded that they have not really succeeded Married white male looking for older white female they marry some guy.
I think any person with a normal amount of common sense understands her Married white male looking for older white female. You, on the other hand, must have frmale very identified, therefore you feel hurt.
Maybe you have also received some negative feedback from girls of you own race, and as a result you're projecting here your insecurities. This is not unique to China except the vastly greater number of men than women. In most western societies at least in the USthe rich guys get the women.
Most american women would be loathe to marry a man who makes less than them, or is less educated than them, or has a "lessor" job than them. Most american men do not want a "smarter", more educated, more ambitious woman who earns more than them. Most american men want a amle who is younger than them or at most years their senior for a wife.
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And when most american women hit their late 20s, they become less desirable, becoming even more less desirable as they hit their mid 30s and into their 40s.
Yet most american men at least those who do not turn into a blob can still get a younger woman even in their shite and 60s.
Hence, this is not isolated to China alone. It is also quite evident here and today in the good ole' USA. As for monogamy. Well, as long as one does not get caught, it will be done.
Very interesting read.
lokoing I am of the opinion that the situation is the same in most countries where is a gender ratio mismatch. Also, it is a very age old concept that men marry younger woman, more from a Married white male looking for older white female of view that women were considered home makers centuries ago and men were the providers and were supposed to go out and earn and there was a patriarchal Try with discrete guy, hence age was an indicator of maturity which is why women were younger than men most of the times.
However, with women going out to work, and perspectives changing and also by moving away from a patriarchal society to a more 'gender-neutral' society this is changing.
This is not just true of China, but many countries.
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It is about when the people femalee the nation evolve in their thinking when a big breakthrough will take place. So this means there is a tone of women in their 30's that Bbw for sex Wisconsin low chance of marriage success, educated and with very high expectations. Wonder if that opens a market for arbitrage.
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And don't forget to thank me when you're sitting on a pile of cash. It is a common practice there nowadays that a rich and often also powerful man will secretly procure a number of pretty unmarried young women for sex with himself only keeping his wife in the dark. Known in China as "er nai", "san nai", Mistress No. It is also known that young university students are the most preferred sources looiing mistresses, especially those who have an attractive face and body but financially struggling parents.
Unlike the traditional Chinese concubines of a household who knew each other well, a mistress has no idea whether she is the only extramarital sex partner for her man most will assume they are not.
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As a matter of fact, many meet their downfall thanks to the revenge by one of their mistresses who fell out of favor and tipped Marrieed off. Yes it's true that western societies have 1 no extra-marital affairs 2 western rich men have no mistresses 3 educated western women are not valued anything extra as mistresses 4 western societies have no prostitutes 5 Western marriages are all perfect Maarried.
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The phenomenon of er nai and san nai is interesting and growing, but these men who provide homes Married white male looking for older white female these modern-day concubines are happily deceiving themselves if they think the girls aren't getting it from somewhere else. A young mistress that some aging geezer is blindly and stupidly throwing money at is in an excellent position to take on younger, whitte attractive men as lovers, as well Married white male looking for older white female a nice standard of living.
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The SUN had already set, long time ago get used to it, and stop looking down on other societies Calm down. The "marriage market" is a common English phrase. People often talk about being "back on the market" after a break-up, or "off the market" when they are engaged.
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Referring to the Chinese "marriage market" is akin to referring to a marketplace full of pigs and cattle that maybe the writer unconsciously associates with developing countries.
I agree that the Economist would not print Hickory hairy pussy article titled the "British Marriage Market" or the "German Marriage Market" out of respect for those cultures.
Ahite i had a year-old girlfriend,should she marry me on prerequisite that i cannot afford to buy a house? This article misses one very important point.