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Being in a 'relationship' does not automatically equal happiness as most couples would like to have you think. I'm not saying the opposite either. I just want to quell the fears invoked by the tone of the inevitable question. If anything you have promise and opportunity unlike the many I know who have compromised or acted in haste, fear or desperation.
I don't want to push your thinking to the other extreme either all happily married people are actually miserable because this also isn't true.
Our happiness is more complex than are marital status and it's good to be reminded of that. As I said, my feeling about this question what about you? Okay, I expected it from parents, aunties, older people etc.
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Thank you for reminding to embrace these moments. You continue to be an inspiration, Mandy! Thank you Mandy for sharing! I can relate to each and every word! All we can do is simply live this single life to the fullest. Wow, I can totally relate to everything you said. Reality is hitting home and I deal. This hit home. I too am mid thirties and single and can so relate.
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This made me cry. Every day I think I am doomed to wander this earth by myself. Just last night I was boo hooing because my kids were gone and I was all by myself at home washing clothes.
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All very true! Such B. So, carrying on and being me! I needed this. I feel like these were the words right out of my own head! You rock Mandy. I never expected to be here at this stage in life as a still-single woman! This is exactly how I feel. Waited 5 years after second divorce to date, to get myself together, to learn to forgive and trust. Dated and then got into another bad relationship.
Another man I was going to help to love me. I can definitely relate to this.
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And with a kiddo in the mix? Thank you for peeling back some layers and showing the ugly truth. And yes, I agree that we do need to be open and honest about the ugly parts too.
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Let me say that again: But we are ultimately responsible for opening our hands and accepting the good things God has put in place for us. The help we lonely people need does require us to stand up, pick up a phone, and talk to someone. Single at 41…soon to be Struggling with being single. Two failed marriages Are there any single women left out there men thefe, one serious relationship that failed lleft almost destroyed me I felt he was my true loveand most recently a year casually dating a guy that was not ready but I kept on with him thinking I could make him get there by being totally into him.
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I constantly put on my suit of armour and tell people just how great my life is. I have a great job, my own place and an adorable dog. But inside all I want is someone to come home to at the end of the day…. I giggled when you said some days you think anyone will do. I myself am 39 and have said that many times.
Best of luck to you! Dear Mandy Where do we go from here? How do we change our attitudes so that we can be open to Love again. I do believe we have created Are there any mature ebony guys under 30? for ourselves and have become stuck in a rut for fear of heartbreak.
I am almost 53 and single for 14 years. This is getting boring but how do we leave our comfort zones? I think I may be in Love with someone but too afraid to tell him and besides this crush I have had for 11 years could be my way of staying single as a defense mechanism. He has shown no interest although he comes across as shy and flustered when he sees me. Strange how we can let time slip by… almost unnoticed.
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Lately the guys Are there any single women left out there I meet end up being immature, have too many problems or are just overall losers.
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He tells us not to be anxious in anything to trust in Him to supply all our needs. When I feel lonely, I will pray and God will give me a sign that he hears me. The more we force the issue the more we will be disappointed. And in the mean time have fun with your lives and continue to keep the faith!! It gets daunting. And discouraging. Maybe I focused too sinle on school and then on my job. Therd I was too driven and my tunnel vision kept me from meeting Mr Right at that frat party I passed on in order to get some more study time in.
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Thanks again! WOW Mandy! Things have been real tough the past few weeks but by the grace of God, I know He Are there any single women left out there greater things set aside for thete of us. Our best days are yet to come! Stay Blessed. This was exactly what I needed to read. I love the honesty and I have felt these emotions so many times. I hate being asked that question because I take the tone as what is wrong with you.
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But sometimes someone stumbles in our path when we least expect it and accept us flaws and all. Well guess what, being single is hard too. Dating is definitely NOT what it used to be. So, I pick myself up again and each time I wonder if this it… The last time I will go through that familiar pain.